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Written by Cary Tennis to a woman enabling her boyfriend to be a mooch: Dear Enabler,I dare you to let go of the rope.You say you're at the end of your rope. So close your eyes and picture the rope. Where is the rope? Is it in your hands or around your neck, or around your waist? What kind of rope is it?Follow the rope. How long is it? Where does it lead? Who's on the other end of it? Is it your